Valentine’s Day Weekend (yes, we celebrate the whole weekend
in our house) was a blast. I’m usually a little pessimistic about the
“holiday.” I was raised to see it as being a commercial holiday and was taught
that you should celebrate love throughout the year instead of focusing on a
single day. I still feel that celebrating love throughout the year is
important, and giving gifts to my wife on a regular basis is something that I’m
happy was instilled in me (happy wife, happy life). However, over the years Chelsia
has shown me how much fun it can be to embrace holidays like Valentine’s Day
and use them as a reason to do things that we wouldn’t normally do. Valentine’s
Day is now a reason for us to surprise each other with gifts, get out and
explore, and eat good food (and lots of sweets!). Valentine’s Day is not only a
great holiday to celebrate our love for one another (and now our little Teagan
as well), but it also allows us to create traditions as a family and gives us
something to look forward to every February.
Our Valentine’s Day Weekend Festivities include, but are not
limited to “perishable” gifts, good food, an adventure of some kind, a romantic
movie, and NBA All Star Weekend.
We decided to exchange gifts on Friday when I got home from
work, which was the opening ceremony of this year’s Valentine’s Day Weekend
festivities. The theme for our Valentine’s Day gifts is “something perishable.”
That basically means anything that we won’t feel the need to hold onto forever
(no jewelry, photo albums, etc.). The thinking behind that is that if we got
each other gifts like that every Valentine’s Day (in addition to birthdays,
anniversaries, etc.) then we would have a garage full of things in a few years.
We each took different interpretations of the rule. We each got the other
something sweet, and I got Chelsia roses and tickets to a random concert in
Hollywood so we could have a date night. She got me a smorgasbord including my
favorite gin and animal crackers.
Our adventure of the weekend consisted of a trip down to
Newport Beach. We had lunch at a bougie seafood shack called Slapfish where we
enjoyed some warm lobster rolls and a lobster and crab grilled cheese. The
lobster rolls were definitely worth the price of admission. After lunch, we
drove around Newport and ended up at a popular surfing spot called “The Wedge.”
We took a walk in the sand and took a break on the edge of the water to watch
the boogie boarders and surfers. We let Teagan get her toes dirty in the sand
as we watched. She hadn’t been to the beach since she was too young to interact
with the world. She had a lot of fun with the sand time and really seemed to
enjoy watching the huge waves breaking from the safety of my shoulders.
Valentine’s Day also happens to correspond with another
great holiday: NBA All Star Weekend. Since the only day that really matters
during NBA All Star Weekend is Saturday night, we had to watch the Saturday
night festivities. Just for the record, we both think that Aaron Gordon was
robbed in the dunk contest.
We ended the weekend strong with a trip to the Aquarium of
the Pacific and with our Valentine’s Day traditions of going out to brunch and
watching a love movie. We used to watch Ghost every year, but we came to the
conclusion that it’s not even really a love movie, despite having one awesome
and classically romantic song. This year we watched Something New, which is an
underrated RomCom. We capped the night off by exchanging cards since we
exchanged gifts at the weekend’s opening ceremony.
I’m happy to report that our first Valentine’s Day with
Teagan was a success. We were able to capture the same romance that we had
before we were a family of three, while also incorporating the new type of love
that we now have in our family into our festivities. We further established our
traditions, while adding to them to better suit our growing family.
-S (say what?!!)
Slapfish in Newport Beach. Lobster rolls and a crab/lobster grilled cheese.
The Wedge in Newport Beach
She's so close to walking. She can take two or three steps on her own before wimping out.
She loved the beach but especially the sand.
Beautiful day in Newport
At the Local Spot for Valentine's Day brunch.
LB Aquarium on Valentine's Day.
Teagan is perfecting the selfie.
At the lighthouse in downtown Long Beach.
The Long Beach convention center.